ANGRY!!
FIRST OF ALL, let me make this clear. CLEAR CLEAR CLEAR: Tulin is NOT financially connected to these books. Tulin dished out the money for the PCOSLiving website out of her OWN POCKET so she would have a safe haven to share info and support those who wanted and needed it. Ian Stoakes is NOT paying her. He is NOT paying me. We are spreading the word because we want to, because we believe that it would be horrible of us NOT to. This is soooooo insane. We are the same people who have worked for FREE for the PCOSA for years now, in fact, at times we have paid to work for the PCOSA, paid to help things stay afloat, because we care so much and because we want to help. To turn around and question who we are and accuse us of getting paid or having other incentives is just absolute insanity. TO THOSE OF YOU WHO HAVE MADE THESE ACCUSATIONS: I dare you to get off your butt and work 40+ hours for NO money, NO pay, and only to get mistreated and crapped on by the people you're trying to help. Then do it for YEARS. *THAT* is what I have been doing. I guess perhaps I should take a look in the mirror here and ask myself, "Who is the stupid one?"
I was going to post at that other forum, in response to these "nasties", that it is not Tulin's duty to go and reach out to those who she wishes to help and then be treated so badly and slapped in the face, and told that you have to PROVE something like that. The proof is out there. It is in the book. The burden of proof is on the author and he has done a great job of showing the proof.
Tulin, don't you dare stay there, or anywhere that they treat you like that, and try to help people that have only mean nasty venom to spit. You are doing this for FREE for everyone, out of the goodness of your heart (I know that for a fact) and yet they want to attack you (like piranas, again). If they want to stay sick, let them. Getting better is UP TO THEM. Making them better is not up to us. Forcing the information down their throats is NOT up to us. We can't save the world honey, so we may as well help those who WANT our help and leave the bitter nasty people to themselves.
All of you idiots out there who have nothing but misery to offer in return for those of us who are working our asses off trying to help you? Go PISS in your own coke and stay the hell away from mine, thanks. Keep on chasing away the people who are trying to help you. See how that works for you.
OK....... Done ranting and raving. I promise, my next post will be much much nicer.


9 Comments:
At 1:10 AM,
Jackie said…
Tarra,
Thank you for saying like it is and I am so bummed to hear of this repeated ignorance. But whether it's online or in person, people are still people, unfortunatly they are not very nice people.
Can't they leave it alone. We understand their hurt over failed 'fad-diets' or what not. We're sorry there is no miracle drug to take and make us all look like Barbie. Sorry people, it is going to have to take some work and effort by you.
Oh bummer... ugh ugh ugh! Grrrrrrr
*hugs* to you Tarra, but not for mean people, not tonight.
Jackie
At 1:10 AM,
Tulin said…
Tarra you scared me. Really, honestly, wow.
But you know what! DAMN it! You are right!
VIVA LA NEW DAWN! VIVA LA NEW DAWN!
DAMN IT! VIVA LA NEW DAWN!
At 1:12 AM,
Tulin said…
what is that bumper sticker "Mean people suck" or instead of "I see dead people, how about "I see mean people".
Keyboard warriors, gotta love them! The world would be a boring place with out them!
VIIIIVVVVA LA NEW DAWN!
At 1:16 AM,
Kerim said…
You rock Tarra!
At 1:41 AM,
Frances said…
Absolutely Jackie! I agree. I'm was so embarassed that she was treated that way. I invited Tulin there and wham! She was just attacked... I think that it was by someone who had an issue from another board by the post script she addeded though... Ovusoft usually isn't fileld with such vile posters... Tarra, you are right... ppl ought to use their manner no matter what! It totally sucks that Tulin was attacked. BTW, I had the thread locked.
At 10:23 AM,
Branden said…
Okay being a volunteer not just in the PCOS arena, but in public saftey for many, many years, I can tell you Tarra is absoultly on the ball. I have put up with it for many many years and I finally stopped activily running on the ambulance because of the abuse. These people really need to get a life.
For those that aren't interesting in the option Tulin is giving, that is fine. But don't denigrate her because it is working for her. Remember people quesitoning something is good, attacking is not!
Sorry Tarra made me want to rant too :)
Branden
At 12:13 PM,
Meredith said…
It's true! People are afraid of what they don't know. "Witchhunt" anyone? What are we, pilgrims? Well, in some ways I guess we are the explorers of a new coast, and no one believed those guys either. As Tulin says, "Viva la New Dawn!"
At 3:41 PM,
Druminhanson said…
Let's lynch them!
I think the bumper sticker says "Mean people suck, Nice people swallow".
At 6:16 PM,
Cynthia said…
Tarra, you are SOO right and boy did I feel the power from your post! Some people have WAY too much time on their hands to be mean. One word for them...karma.
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